How to be sexy? Are you tired of looking “blah?” Every woman goes through phases of “ugly,” and oddly enough some never come out of them. If you’re ready to revamp your look and turn heads, keep reading. No matter what your body shape, you can become sexier today.
How to be sexy – crucial steps
Get clean. Bathe at least once a day. Feeling and looking clean is crucial. Wash with a nice smelling body soap three times with a bathing sponge and it will smell great. Get out and pat yourself dry with a towel, and rub in some rich body lotion. You need to be soft and able to cuddle at all times (do not neglect your hands, elbows, and feet). If possible try to layer matching scents on your body, such as soap, lotion, powder, and perfume. For example if you bathe with citrus smelling body soap, try to wear a citrus-smelling lotion also.
Practice good dental hygiene as well; this includes brushing, flossing and even mouth wash. Get a check up and have your teeth cleaned often. Invest in a good toothbrush, water pick, and mouthwash. Always keep mints or breathe spray on hand.
Get groomed. Work with what you’ve got. But keep it neat and tidy! Trim finger and toe nails weekly, remembering to clean under the nail. No fancy nail polish colors are needed, but a simple beige color can play down any nail discoloration. If you choose to sculpt your eyebrows, get them waxed at a professional place -if you choose to pluck try to stencil the desired shape that will help avoid over plucking- it’s not really attractive. Once every 2 or 3 weeks – have a pampering day including a manicure, pedicure, facial, and bubble bath, even if it’s just a spa day at home.
Style your hair. Make a trip to the hair salon. A new cut or style will make you feel sexy and confident. Having a change of hair color is nice, too. Go for something natural and not too dramatic. Deep condition your hair at least once a month. In the mornings, flat iron your hair or put it in a messy bun, depending on your style. Adding extensions or a wig can radically change an everyday look from “ho-hum” to “wow” to turn a few heads. Studies show that most men are more attracted to longer hair – this is because longer, glossier hair is associated with health; if you get ill, the first thing the body stops maintaining is your hair in order to concentrate on sustaining more vital areas. And since in terms of evolution, it makes more sense for a guy to be attracted to a healthy girl, it’s become natural to be attracted to hair that looks healthier!
Create winning skin. Do a steam facial maybe once a week for up to 10 minutes, to open up your pores and get rid of blackheads and acne. To do this, get a bowl of boiling water and a towel, and just sit with your face in the steam, using the towel as a little tent/mini sauna over your head and the bowl. Caution: doing it for longer then 10 minutes will just stress out your skin, which will just make it worse! Wash your face right away afterwards with a cleanser made for your type of skin. Then rinse and splash your face with cold water to close your pores or, alternatively, get an ice cube and wait for it to melt a little. Then smooth it gently over your face until it melts; this closes your pores and prevents dirt going back into them. An alternative to this is to use a facial scrub to get rid of flaky, dead skin cells.
Remove ALL unwanted hair. Create silky skin free of any hair on face, bikini area, legs, underarms, abdomen and back. Facial hair removal and permanent hair removal on all body should be done immediately.
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How to be sexy – special steps
How to be sexy
Show your style.
How to be sexy ? – develop your own sexy style.
Invest in a good pair of curve-hugging jeans. Dark denim looks good on all body types.
Pick some clothes that flatter your figure and that you feel comfortable in. There’s no point picking the latest fashions if you don’t feel comfortable in them! Pick clothes that make you feel like you!
Wear lace-up flats or sneakers. Flats are cute and comfortable–two characteristics that you rarely ever find in the shoe department!
Wear jewelry that excites you. Find colorful, fun, bright chunky necklaces and bracelets, but if you wear lots of pearls and beads, don’t wear a shirt that has a pattern or a picture on it. Wear a monochromatic top with lots of multicolored jewelry.
Black is sexy. It hides fat rolls, creates curves and makes you feel like a goddess.
Sexy undergarments. Wear a thong or a G – string. Men love this, but women will tend to think badly of you if you show off. Try to maintain class as much as possible, while still being sexy.
Take up dancing. Sign up for lessons with a friend–salsa, ballet, hip-hop, ballroom, whatever you like. You’ll gain confidence, and you will move more gracefully and sexily in everything you do, without even thinking about it. (health benefits are an obvious bonus!) Belly dancing is also another way to feel sexy and confident!
Wear make-up. Just make sure not to go overboard — subtle is very sexy. Accent one feature at a time! For example, one day, put on lip-liner, bold red lipstick, and mascara. For another day, wear subtle pink or clear lip gloss, and wear eye-liner to make your eyes stand out. If you need help creating a look, a mall makeup counter or independent beauty consultant would be happy to teach you for free.
Get-in-Shape. Create a workout plan. Crunches/Lunges equal flat, hard ab muscles, lunges equal toned legs, and squats equal a toned backside. Running or jogging works all muscles of the body and increases your stamina. Plus, the hormones your body releases while exercising carry on through your evening activities to contribute to your new sexy attitude. Remember that if your workout goal is to lose weight, you’re going to need to sweat, and for an extended period of time.
Choose a work-out regimen that you enjoy.
If you’re dissatisfied with your body, by all means, work on getting healthier–but remember that “sexy” isn’t a body shape. It’s an aura. Sexy doesn’t equal skinny. Men are attracted to ALL body types.
Try doing fitness routines that will make you feel sexy because after all feeling sexy makes you look and seem just that, Sexy!
Disclaimer: It is strongly recommended to consult your doctor for professional advice. Above mentioned information and recommendations are just general and should be adapted to each person according to personal health indicators and status.